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One of the biggest TV tropes is the will-they-won’t-they between two characters. Every viewer can see it coming, but we don’t care. We’re suckers for it. The only issue truly is making sure it’s done right. Pull the trigger too soon and put these two destined lovers together in Season 2, and all the tension is gone. Wait several seasons to put them together, or worse, have them get together, breakup, and get together again (we’re looking at you Ross and Rachel!), and it turns the drama into a slog.
The Office found a way to do it near perfectly. From the moment we first met Jim Halpert (John Krasinski) and Pam Beesly (Jenna Fischer) we knew they were meant for each other. They were the only two normal people at Dunder Mifflin Scranton after all, but they were also best friends. There was only one major problem: Pam was engaged to someone else. We tuned in to The Office every week, wondering if this would be the episode where they confessed their love. When it finally did happen, fans celebrated, but it was at the expense of Jim’s poor girlfriend, Karen Filipelli (Rashida Jones).
Karen Filipelli Was a Good Fit for Jim Halpert
Karen and Jim sitting on a couch on ‘The Office’Image via NBC
When Jim reveals his romantic feelings to Pam in Season 2 of The Office, only to get shot down, he moves on. Literally. Jim can’t stay in Scranton with the pain of seeing the woman every day who has rejected him, so he transfers to the Stamford branch of Dunder Mifflin. One of his coworkers there in Season 3 is Karen. Jim and Karen aren’t a couple straight off. Instead, we get to know Karen first. It’s easy to see that she likes Jim, and immediately many fans hated her for it. She was the obstacle in the way of Jim and Pam. It should have been the timid Pam fans were upset with, but instead the disappointment was taken out on the new girl.
Things are actually going well for the pair. If this wasn’t a sitcom, where we know Jim and Pam are destined to be together, we could believe that Jim has moved on, and just maybe Karen is the one for him. He seems happier, but then through the gossipy Phyllis (Phyllis Smith), Karen learns about Jim’s feelings for Pam. She badgers him about it incessantly, not angry, not judging, but showing that she, too, is scared and is afraid of losing him. That vulnerability makes Karen more real, but it pushes Jim away, and he is kind of in the wrong for being overwhelmed by it. It’s probably something he should have told her from the beginning, but it became something he seemingly hid because he was trying to ignore his feelings for Pam.
Karen Tried Her Best To Get Along With Pam on ‘The Office’
Karen and Jim are thrown a huge curveball in Season 3 of The Office when the Stamford branch is closed and Jim is sent right back to Scranton, a place he’d just tried to escape from. To make everything more tense, Karen is there too. She almost immediately becomes the odd woman out, even though she’s the girlfriend, as Jim starts to revert to his old life. Karen is actually the sympathetic character here, however. She has uprooted the life she knows for one of uncertainty with a new boyfriend, only to find out that he still cares for the woman he ran away from. No amount of personal confidence can withstand that.
Still, Karen is a good person. She doesn’t go crazy with jealousy, screaming and making scenes, but rather, she’s a woman in pain who’s trying to keep believing that the man she loves truly loves her back, and not someone else that’s a few feet away from them. Karen even tries to rise above the doubts by befriending Pam. It had to be horribly awkward for both of them, but Karen made the best of it. She could have ignored Pam, and that would make sense, but instead, the two form the Committee to Plan Parties and work together to put on the superior Christmas party. If there was no Jim in the picture, it would be easy to see these two becoming best friends, which is what Pam needs more than a man.
Karen Didn’t Deserve To Be Treated That Way on ‘The Office’
Jim is the ultimate good guy on The Office. He might tease Dwight incessantly, but he doesn’t act like he’s better than anyone. He’s humbled by a job that’s beneath him, yet he never comes across as above his co-workers. He’s kind, but his unrequited love for Pam makes him a selfish coward at times. His true feelings come out in an unflattering fashion when, at Phyllis’ wedding, he starts to confess that if Pam was still hypothetically into him that he’d be interested in her. How messed up is that to tell on camera?! For a moment, it’s like Jim forgets that he has a great, loyal girlfriend in Karen. She is sure about her love for him, but we know Jim doesn’t love Karen back. He doesn’t deserve her.
If it’s not Jim’s attitude, it’s the non-stop gossip at work Karen has to put up with. There’s always some reminder of Jim and Pam’s past, sometimes blatant, such as the time Pam’s ex, Roy (David Denman), tries to attack Jim. If that wasn’t bad enough, dimwitted Kevin (Brian Baumgartner) asks Karen how she feels about it. “I feel great,” she sarcastically tells him. There is exhaustion in that comment as well, as if Karen reminds herself over and over every day that she feels great until she believes it.
Everything comes to a head in the love triangle at the end of Season 3 of The Office when Jim and Karen are both going for a corporate job in New York. For Karen, it represents hope. If she gets it, she and Jim will move away, leaving the pain of Scranton behind. For Jim, however, it’s scary. When he finds an encouraging note Pam wrote for him, it’s enough to get him to change his mind right there at the interview. Did Pam know what she was doing when she did this? Even though there was nothing romantic in her words, she may have been crossing a boundary. Jim ditches New York, drives right back to Scranton, and immediately asks Pam out. Fans rejoiced, but hello, what about his girlfriend, who he just ditched?!